December 31, 1965 in a small church in Point Pleasant, WV, my parents devoted their lives to one another both at the tender age of twenty-one. Today, they are celebrating their 60th anniversary together for the first time since 2016. If you are new here On The One Four One, that may read odd to... Continue Reading →
Father’s Day Thoughts
https://theonefourone.com/2018/06/17/fathers-day-2-0/#more-1364?page_id=1364 As I began to write about my eighth Father's Day without my Dad to actually celebrate, I went back and read what I had written on my second year. The same words ring true for me. My goal has been and continues to be to celebrate him every single day by living up to... Continue Reading →
Reflections of 2023
In years past, I have titled these "Lessons Of". I've already changed the title line of this one a few times - Lessons of 2023 - 2023 - Recap of 2023 - to finally "Reflections of 2023". As I begin reflecting, I find the same is true this year as years past. January and February... Continue Reading →
Future Second Home ~ Oceanfront
There was a time I missed home that I didnβt enjoy my time away. I guess it comes with age that I havenβt thought of Ohio much at all. When we were here in March, it was one of the most relaxing trips Iβve taken. This one has been the same - due in part... Continue Reading →
My Favorite Thing About Me
Whatβs your favorite thing about yourself? My Aunt Barbara had written this on the bottom of a letter she sent me. Yes, she still sends me notes in the mail. I have this taped right where I can see it as I sit at my desk. I find myself childlike when I talk to her.... Continue Reading →
My Dream Chocolate Bar
Describe your dream chocolate bar. Honestly, my dream chocolate bar is actually a Wine & Chocolate Bar. You can ask GW and he will tell you that I have talked about this for YEARS. Literally, years! I kind of hate to even say what my vision is however, I do believe that whatever you put... Continue Reading →
Dear Paula,
Write a letter to your 100-year-old self. Hello friend. How are you? I'm sorry I haven't told you lately how proud I am of you. But, I am. I've always believed in you though I am not sure that you even know that about me - and for that - I am truly sorry. You... Continue Reading →
2022 ~ Thank You ~
The beginning of the year is a blur. I started off with great intentions of posting every day - that lasted a big five days. With McKenzie's graduation in May, we worked hard to secure all of the things she desired for her celebration. We lived in the moments clear through the day of graduation.... Continue Reading →
Dear Santa ~ Iβll take it from here.
Dear Santa,Since 2003, you have blessed McKenzie with every thing she has ever asked for on her Christmas lists. I remember the only time she didn't get what she asked for was because she asked too late and the American Girl make up case she wanted had already been spoken for by other little girls.... Continue Reading →
Neighborhoods & Street Lights – Spring Valley
I know many of you will relate to this piece. I grew up in the best neighborhood ever. And, I mean E V E R! I'm sure your neighborhood was the best E V E R as well. As I sat in the back seat of my Mom's black Lincoln Continental with my little brother,... Continue Reading →
Thinking Out Loud ~ She Made It UPDATE
This is an UPDATE to my β‘οΈ https://theonefourone.com/2022/03/01/a-look-back-on-2021/ β¬ οΈ click for more. All through last year, my repeated statement to all involved with my mom throughout her journey was this - our goal is to get her back to independent living like she was the day before her knee replacement and then heart attack. I... Continue Reading →
Thinking Out Loud – Release
When I started to blog, I remember the feeling of excitement of putting my thoughts down on "paper". Not worried about what people thought or if anyone would even read my posts. It is a shame to say that I began on Blogger eleven years ago - E L E V E N. In eleven... Continue Reading →
A Look Back on 2021 – She Made It
I honestly can say that I do not even remember what I did January, February or March. I looked back in my day planner and the things listed in those months were birthdays and days off of school - no rushing to here to there back to here only to go there again. A nod... Continue Reading →
Such A Shame
I cannot seem to get in the groove of writing and it is such a shame. Part of the problem is that I just don't make the time. Another part of it, I stop myself from sharing my words due to allowing others get in my head and rent space that doesn't belong to them... Continue Reading →
My Thank You Note to 2020!!
Dear 2020, First of all, I want to say thank you for everything. I mean that will all sincerity. I've read other letters written about you and all the bad things you had to offer. Yes, we could have done without a lot of drama but isn't that every year? I think you are getting... Continue Reading →
When a different kind of virus invades
2020 has been different to say the very least with Covid 19 that has plagued the world. A couple of viruses of a different kind infiltrated our family in human form. Before Christmas last year, a not so nice person left our lives - or so we thought - then they came slithering back in... Continue Reading →
~THANK YOU ~ THANK YOU~ THANK YOU ~ THANK YOU ~
When I get up in the morning, the first thing I do as I walk through the house is to say the words - THANK YOU. I repeat THANK YOU over and over until I get to where I am going. ~ THANK YOU ~ THANK YOU ~ THANK YOU ~ THANK YOU ~ THANK... Continue Reading →
Lessons of 2019
I started this post in January...... working on it again in March.... and here we are in April..and now June....π€¦πΌββοΈ Happy New Year! Where in the world did 2019 go? Let alone the last 20 years!! Our family took off to the Great Smoky Mountains four days after Christmas and have spent the last week... Continue Reading →
Me Weekend ~ Me Time
I have spent this entire weekend alone doing whatever I wanted to do whenever I wanted to do it. I even took an evening to do nothing at all but veg out, watch every episode of Season 5 of Grace & Frankie on Netflix and drink Dark Horse RosΓ© wine. I have been afforded all... Continue Reading →
Spiritual & Mental Reset
If Facebook showed me just how many times I pull up their website on Safari, I would be even more aggravated with myself than the crap that flows through my newsfeed as I mindlessly scroll down rolling my eyes ~ quite often I may add ~ at all of the crap that people post and... Continue Reading →
Pitching Mood
As much as I hate to admit it - I am a hoarder of things like all of M's papers. I have totes labeled Preschool, Kindergarten, 1st Grade, 2nd Grade, 3rd Grade.... you get the picture. Middle school took a hit in the paper department since very little - if any - papers were brought... Continue Reading →