Father’s Day Thoughts

As I began to write about my eighth Father’s Day without my Dad to actually celebrate, I went back and read what I had written on my second year. The same words ring true for me. My goal has been and continues to be to celebrate him every single day by living up to the person he expected me to be. To never forget where I come from and the hard work and sacrifices that were made every single day as I still reap the rewards to this day.

Greg and I went to lunch yesterday and a man had bought a round of beverages. Before we left the establishment, I went to say thank you and asked if he remembered me. All I had to do was say my name and he stepped back and said – absolutely I remember you. You are Paul Williams’ daughter. Proudly, I said – yes, sir. He shared a really cute story about when my mom and dad were dating. I love that people share with me things I didn’t know. As we left, I told Greg – he isn’t “gone” – he is forever with me. I am so proud to be my Daddy’s daughter.

To my friends that are walking through your year of firsts – breathe – get through each day one moment at a time – laugh – cry – celebrate – remember – tell stories – do it your way. My way isn’t your way. Your way isn’t mine. When you find a nugget that gets you through – share that with a friend who may be beginning their journey through firsts. As you find your new “normal” you will discover the void never fills yet you learn to navigate around it. You can’t stop living – it isn’t fair to yourself nor those remaining. Keep forging ahead, my friend. You can do this too.

XOXO ~ PGWW